I had been planning to write on this topic for some time now.There have been absurd guys sending requests to me and other girls in an attempt to bump into their 'maybe future girlfriend' . Absurd guys as i said , have no scope of getting a girl's attention otherwise or even to get noticed in a crowd.So, social networking is their platform!Wear the veil of a stud and look cool when you are nothing more than a mug wort!
The boys who have been sending a myriad requests to unknown girls , this is for you :
Dude , Grow Up! every other girl you bump into knows you're fake & how much you may fantasize about making her your gf , she won't even ...ADD YOU! :p But this blog isn't regarding the above point.It is about love or at least a hope for it.You like a girl/boy , send him a request. Have mutual friends , easier for him/her to add you.
he/she adds you.
Bingo!
Wait for them to turn up online for atleast 2hrs a day and if you don't have that much patience , inbox them !
Any random girl/guy you come across the first thing they do is 'make them friends ' , a proof that you have met before in life :p
Recently a friend of mine added her long time crush on a social networking site in a hope that they can talk further . But guys , it was all in vain.Nothing more could happen other than liking each other's status' or wall posts. The reason is we still need ample time to spend with people and know them. Typing or texting your likes and dislikes is not the way to go!Another friend who liked a guy (or rather just found him cute) sent him a request.Though they had no mutual friends and did not converse ever , a party for the friend request acceptance did fall in my luck ;)
I wonder if it weren't for this , how would people have approached each other. whatever be the odds, you still stand a chance of being 'FRANDS' :p Most of the cases I came across ,couldn't be successful in finding anything more abut their crushes. Crushes after all are left crushes!
So next time don't wait for that eureka moment and don't be a silly chump.Say it on the face ! Exchanging a 'Hi' with that glowing smile on your face is worth a billion dollars more than that 'hey :)' in your texts. And yes , at least you won't be called creepy or a despo that way!And rejection can be accepted with a glee much easily than those hours you would spend waiting for your virtual love to revert back.And above all , one simple line is 'Get a LIFE' !
The boys who have been sending a myriad requests to unknown girls , this is for you :
Dude , Grow Up! every other girl you bump into knows you're fake & how much you may fantasize about making her your gf , she won't even ...ADD YOU! :p But this blog isn't regarding the above point.It is about love or at least a hope for it.You like a girl/boy , send him a request. Have mutual friends , easier for him/her to add you.
he/she adds you.
Bingo!
Wait for them to turn up online for atleast 2hrs a day and if you don't have that much patience , inbox them !
Any random girl/guy you come across the first thing they do is 'make them friends ' , a proof that you have met before in life :p
Recently a friend of mine added her long time crush on a social networking site in a hope that they can talk further . But guys , it was all in vain.Nothing more could happen other than liking each other's status' or wall posts. The reason is we still need ample time to spend with people and know them. Typing or texting your likes and dislikes is not the way to go!Another friend who liked a guy (or rather just found him cute) sent him a request.Though they had no mutual friends and did not converse ever , a party for the friend request acceptance did fall in my luck ;)
I wonder if it weren't for this , how would people have approached each other. whatever be the odds, you still stand a chance of being 'FRANDS' :p Most of the cases I came across ,couldn't be successful in finding anything more abut their crushes. Crushes after all are left crushes!
So next time don't wait for that eureka moment and don't be a silly chump.Say it on the face ! Exchanging a 'Hi' with that glowing smile on your face is worth a billion dollars more than that 'hey :)' in your texts. And yes , at least you won't be called creepy or a despo that way!And rejection can be accepted with a glee much easily than those hours you would spend waiting for your virtual love to revert back.And above all , one simple line is 'Get a LIFE' !
